Mr. or Mrs. Right
It is a common mistake to think that you have to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. If you find Mr. or Mrs. Right, then all will be well. Nothing could be further from the truth.
If you have been married long enough to be past the honeymoon stage, then you know that things that you had not yet discovered about your spouse are now coming to light. They may be little things that irritate you or they may be bigger things that were kept well hidden during your time of dating. Whatever the case, you have now come to the realization that your spouse is not the perfect person you thought he or she was.
Created in God’s Image
The fact of the matter is that changing your marriage will not be because you changed your spouse. It will be because you changed yourself. So, where should you begin? You begin where God begins. He created you in His image. Unlike any other part of the creation, you have the ability to think rationality, react emotionally, and have an understanding of morality. It is only the human race that possesses the image of God.
Therefore, if you want to change your marriage for the better, begin with the understanding that you are created in God’s image.He has a purpose for your life. He desires the best for you including marriage.